The Israelites found out what happens when we don’t allow God to be bigger than everything else, we fight against God, and when we simply forget about God. They were promised a beautiful land where they could settle down and live. Instead, their rebellion landed them in a desert wilderness for forty years.
"Because your men explored the land for forty days, you must wander in the wilderness for forty years--a year for each day, suffering the consequences of your sins. Then you will discover what it is like to have Me for an enemy.' I, the LORD, have spoken! I will certainly do these things to every member of the community who has conspired against Me. They will be destroyed here in this wilderness, and here they will die!" (Numbers 14:34-35 NLT)
I can only imagine the feeling that would have come over them as they finally realized the implications of their actions. Warnings from God had gone ignored. Promises from God were not enough. Now, they were coming face to face with the reality: God is God. Even in the midst of this terrifying revelation, God still provides them hope for the future.
“You said your children would be carried off as plunder. Well, I will bring them safely into the land, and they will enjoy what you have despised. But as for you, you will drop dead in this wilderness. And your children will be like shepherds, wandering in the wilderness for forty years. In this way, they will pay for your faithlessness, until the last of you lies dead in the wilderness.” (Numbers 14:31-33 NLT)
They would not get to go into the beautiful land, but their children will. They will enjoy all the benefits and blessings that come from walking together with God…if they want. The parents won’t be able to change their own judgement, but they still have hope with their children. They can help their children do better than they did themselves. They can help their children see God as God. They can help their children respect God as LORD. They can help their children understand the design, the intent, and even more details of the very mind of God. They can help their children learn that God loves them and wants to walk with them. They can help their children learn that, even though they failed, their children can enjoy all the benefits and blessings that come with walking together with God. They can help their children love God, because love is not something we feel – it is something we learn to do.
I lay the sins of the parents upon their children; the entire family is affected--even children in the third and fourth generations of those who reject Me. But I lavish unfailing love for a thousand generations on those who love Me and obey My commands. (Exodus 20:5-6 NLT)
The Israelites in that generation were not being warned about sin affecting children and grandchildren to the fourth generation. They were living it. Children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and even great-great-grandchildren were living out in the desert for forty years – paying the price for their parent’s sins. No, this part of the command was not a warning as much as it was an explanation and a promise. Yes, they were stuck in the desert with their parents these forty years. But, God has great blessings in store for them when they leave their parents’ path and walk together with God. God promised them to lavish unfailing love on them for much, much longer than their stay in the desert.
So, how about you? Do you relate more with the parents, who fought against God, or the children, who are learning from their parents’ mistakes? Do you see how God’s love, promises, and blessings are available to you? Which path do you choose?