Relationships with people can be complicated and confusing. That’s because each person is unique. We can take cues from other people, but for any specific person the relationship with that person will be unique. The goal, however, for all relationships is that they will end up as relationships founded on love. This begins with another foundation: truth.
The righteous will inherit the land and dwell in it forever. The mouths of the righteous utter wisdom, and their tongues speak what is just. The law of their God is in their hearts; their feet do not slip. (Psalms 37:29-31 NIV)
I’ve watched many people hurt one another under the banner of “truth.” It gets dicey pretty fast. Truth, as described here, is not simply an accurate reporting of the details of life. In other words, truth isn’t just about reporting what someone ate, what they read or watched, what they said, or what they did. While these details may be accurate, truth happens when those details are viewed through the lense of God’s eyes. Truth is discovered as we look at the world the way God looks at it and then decide to love all people they way God loves them. When we do, we have discovered truth.
Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God's wrath comes on those who are disobedient. (Ephesians 5:6 NIV)
When I look at the world through God’s eyes, I see the upcoming judgement, the wrath of God, and the way God provides mercy and grace. I recognize that all of us, each one separately, will give an account for our words and actions. When all is said and done, we will either receive judgement for our choices or grace through the work of Jesus on the cross. When I truly love my neighbor, I will want them to understand this picture and choose grace as well. That’s why my relationship with others must begin with God and truth.
I urge you, brothers and sisters, to watch out for those who cause divisions and put obstacles in your way that are contrary to the teaching you have learned. Keep away from them. For such people are not serving our Lord Christ, but their own appetites. By smooth talk and flattery they deceive the minds of naive people. (Romans 16:17-18 NIV)
Some are short sighted – even in God’s Church. That’s why God warns the Church in Rome against such people and leaders. These people are only looking at this life and trying to “get ahead.” They have lost sight of the truth, so they use people to gain things. When we see the truth, however, we use things to gain people who will join you in your walk together with God.
Keep reminding God's people of these things. Warn them before God against quarreling about words; it is of no value, and only ruins those who listen. Avoid godless chatter, because those who indulge in it will become more and more ungodly. (2 Timothy 2:14, 16 NIV)
So, how about you? Where do your relationships start? Do they begin with your relationship with God? Do you begin with the foundation of His truth? Do you speak the truth?
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